You’re entirely too busy…

Busyness is an issue that is ever-present in my life.  I don’t say that to boast.  In fact, many times my busyness is attributed to the lack of stewardship of time in my life, as well as a neglect of more important matters in favor of less important matters. Busyness happens.  But how do you…

John Wesley’s Famous Accountability Questions

The Scriptures exhort Christians to be watchful because the Devil prowls around the world looking for whom he may devour (1 Peter 5:8).  Thus, accountability is a crucial part of a Christian’s life.  Here is an abbreviated version of John Wesley’s famous accountability question that I came across in Jared Wilson’s book The Pastor’s Justification: Applying…

You Need To Be Accountable…

Accountability is a word that isn’t specifically mentioned in the Scriptures, though there are a lot of passages that speak to exhorting and confronting one another in truth. One passage is Galatians 6:1-2.  One truth to take away from this passage is that if you are caught in sin, you need to be restored by…

What are the marks of manhood?

Andreas J. Kostenberger and David W. Jones in their book God, Marriage, and Family: Rebuilding the Biblical Foundation, cite Dr. Mohler who describes what the marks of manhood are.  He recommends the following list: Spiritual maturity sufficient enough to lead a wife and children. Personal maturity sufficient enough to be a responsible husband and father.…

Is it simply about being happy, fulfilled or…

What is the goal of biblical counseling?  Is it building ego, fostering self-confidence, exploring a person’s inner world and coming to terms with it, becoming better adjusted socially, getting in touch with inner divine energies, becoming happy or fulfilled, etc.?  I believe that the goal of counseling is precisely what Paul lays forth in Colossians…

How well do you know your wife?

Martin Luther said, “There is no more lovely, friendly or charming relationship, communion or company, than a good marriage.” That being said, how well do you know your wife? Consider the following questions: Do you know what she is worried about today? Do you know her greatest concern for herself? For you? For your children?…