I found this podcast very encouraging. It’s only 20 minutes or so.

Here’s some principles they share:

• A good pastor knows when to keep silent.
• A good pastor “promotes” people who have the good of the group in mind not those who flatter him.
• A good pastor uses shock statements (hyperbole) sparingly.
• A good pastor trust/relies on the authority of the Bible more so than the latest leadership/business book.
• A good pastor is joyful and generous.
• A good pastor rejoices in the leadership and growth of others.

You can listen here.